I am more of a lover than a wanker - I want to kiss a soul, not just a mouth. Romance turns me on more than cock talk. Two hearts beating is as erotic as two men screaming in orgasm. I like people to be at ease with themselves, comfortable with themselves, confident and secure. It took me years to get that way with myself and I like men who are there with me.

I live in New Orleans - not NOLA. They are two very different places. I'm a tour guide specializing in historic tours - visiting the city? HMU!