if you wish to contact me, please send an email. i absolutely hate the new chat format here and wont be chatting any longer. if i dont respond to your email it is most likely because i wont be checking this site very often. maybe that will change if things here change for the better rather than the worse. guess i shouldnt complain about a "free" site but i dislike the changes. im hoping for a younger bondage buddy that maybe develops into something more. send me an email and we can see where it goes. thanks