I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook with him, clean, and I have no problem doing that b'cause I b'lieve and I have being thought by my God Father that it's also man's responsibility to do the house works and house chores as well.