I am an experienced spanker and have also been on the receiving end many times.

Prefer mature men 35 and over(no upper age limit)
Once your brain makes the connection that spanking can generate the kind of blissfulness that makes you forget all your problems (for a while), you want to get it again.

You've probably been thinking about spanking all your life so what are you waiting for. You can be gay or straight or what Dan Savage calls "Bi for spanking"
We can meet for coffee first if you want, and you can size me up, and vice versa
Everyone seems to have their own very personal conception of what an ideal spanking should be for them. T