Older gent who is just interested in friendly chat. Actively gay in the 80s but found the social climate was too hostile for me to try to live life that way. And I al;ways wanted to have a son. So I did what about 30% of the gay guys of my time did. I married a woman. I am happy with my decision and would never cheat on her. But I am and always will be gay, so socializing with guys on sites like these can be a breath of fresh air for me. It's like holding one's breath being gay and playing at being straight. Sites like this allow me to breaking out and getting a gasp of fresh air. Helps make my 'straight' life more bearable. Thanks for reading. All the best.