How can any of us really tell about oneself? So here it goes in the basic truth I can say. I'm a wm 54 OLD 254lbs yes that I'm fat. I usually have a very full and very GREY beard. Right now its dye black. I'm also HIV+ so get over it. My virul load is "0" if that means anything. Now get this, I'm also a bottom too. Wow a Bottom in the Atlanta, GA area