I've always had a thing for wrestling and arm wrestling. I enjoying feeling the power of and testing my strength against other men in friendly arm wrestling or wrestling contests.
Dominating a match or losing to a stronger guy both excite me. Wrestling is not a deal breaker but an added bonus.
It's more about the erotic and sensual man-to-man body contact than the actual pin or being pinned, submitting or being submitted.
I have wrestled a few times and loved the rush...win or lose.
If it gets erotic, that's more than okay and welcomed!